Until You Learn The Meaning of the Blues

Why a Man Won't Sleep with a Woman

There's next article just think would probably not make for print 70 years ago. Women talking openly about sex whether it's in a marriage or as a single women. That's amazing when one can think how women and sex is now a multi-million dollar market. There are hundreds of articles, magazines and ads that discuss having more rewarding sex, but what about not having sex at all. Even more, what about a man that a woman was having sex with that suddenly doesn't want to any more. Let's take a look at single woman's sexual life with a man for a moment and ask the question, why would a man want to stop having sex with her? Let's also assume that she believes he is her "boyfriend."  Or could that be part of the problem; she thinks he's her boyfriend, yet there's been no confirmation from him to her that they are in a relationship. Well, assuming that he is not of a caveman personality, here are a few reasons why a man may not want to have sex with a woman suddenly that he has been.

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Professionalism in Romantic Relationships

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Removing Professionalism from Romance  08/07/2012 - 00:22

Relationship Trauma

Relationship trauma are those things in the deep subconscious mind of the child within an adult that keeps a romantic relationship for moving forward.  Relationship trauma can be from the affects of mirror neurons,-(explained through a link at the end of this article),- childhood or sexual abuse and even ultra-conservative upbringing.  It is relationship trauma that helps disturbed the ability to have in some cases open and or trusting relationships with other adults and in one on one intimate relationships.
Complete article by author on Relationship Trauma
© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing, Inc

Satisfaction Purposes (Introduction)

She looks at the reflection of her mirror and thinks to herself if she is blessed, lucky or simply is paid for her good deeds throughout her life. She ponders whether to thank an entity bigger than her spirit that is filled with thankfulness. She has the voice of reason. She speaks to the sound of the rain as she listens to the wind roar with it and remembers as the words come... the words.... they come and her whispers can be heard along with her guide in his inner heart feel them say-


PART I

PART II

Satisfaction Purposes (Poem part 2)

There would be a hundred thousand winds before the tide would change between them but then

why would it when only love bears satisfaction purposes between the warmth of their hands and the wave of their bodies

Yesterday and Tomorrow are one like the sun that does not rise or set since they met there is only satisfaction and purposes that the cosmos sets in motion

to build peace and serenity to the lives of many who set eyes upon their satisfaction and with purpose do their noses smell their skins

and it continues to evoke pleasure not pain and to measure the depth of our hearts as we gain purposes to satisfy the sweat from our foreheads, my breasts and his chest.

And she warms my world with vigor and passion and I am thankful for her presence and the present of her spirit that engulfs my breath as I sigh from satisfaction purposes and die a small death do I not worry in her arms

Put at my feet admiration and rise will your throne to command no more war as you walk the lands-

Defend will my glory your dreams and defeat lack of promises with truth told across the ages that our love does not carry with it hate-

From day to day not only the wise can see

we are

to each other

for satisfaction purposes only

PART I

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing, Inc.

Satisfaction Purposes Only ( Poem part 1)

Thought I'd change the pace and give you a few poetic images for the weekend

put at my feet admiration
Forget the stars in the skies, but make them in my eyes glisten until the morning dew wakes the worms and my toes wiggle-  for satisfaction purposes

Change oh don't change you whisper in the sunlight to never wake up
and wake up do I want
in a new bed of memories
for satisfaction purposes

Two as one yes
the words fit
and admiration and plans and success and happiness and the love of love wets our lips

As for satisfaction purposes does our lips kiss the wind with tales of history gone bad
and a future we crave daily through dusk to embrace each other through starlit blue hazel skies in trust, then lust and must we remain civil for continued satisfaction purposes

PART II     © 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing, Inc.

Genderlect Styles

Genderlect Styles-a ten part series by Sharon L. West

One of my favorite subject matters when it comes to communication in romantic relationships is genderlect styles.  Genderlect styles is the conversations between men and women that can be described in part as that which often emotionally leaves men thinking and or saying women or drama and women about men that they can't understand them.  The book Men Are from Mars Women Are from Venus by John Gray published 10 years ago in 1992, was the beginning of dating and married men and women starting to be taken notice by the public at large that there is a real difference in the direction of communication between the sexes.

John Gray's work borrows from another great author named Deborah Tannen in which all who study romantic relationships know as Deborah often refers to the gender speak between the two as being a cross cultural communication.  In my newsletters and lectures, I borrow in part from both authors in addition to newly taught theories, scientific facts about neurology as yet even more cross reference that includes religious values, work environment and more as to why and how men and women think, act and react differently to various encounters in their daily communication with one another.

The upcoming articles will be a series on genderlect styles.  In the series, readers will begin to learn why there is similar miscommunication that occurs all the time between men and women.  Readers will begin to realize that all men and women generally miss the deeply rooted issues involved with cross-cultural encounters with men and women.  Even nations where women and men are separated from each other as a rule of preserving man and womanhood via cultural and or religious values, there are genderlect styles each sex is conditioned by in communication with each other during quiet private moments during what communication specialist deem, integration and separation.  (Refer to a previous article in my relational dialectic series called, Integration and Separation for a glimpse of the matter.)

I do not, as with my last series on relational dialectic, go into depth about the subject matter of genderlect styles enough for a total personal reflection or ability to write an essay from any of the articles.  This would call for your own study and or further investigation into programs I have designed.  Instead the aim of all of the articles are to help readers begin to realize that there is a real communication difference between the sexes that is not just altered by mass media and broadcast, but a state of consciousness that is altered by it.  Most important, the articles are for both men and women to start learning more about the natural process of communication between the sexes that is real for all men and women defined as gender-speak and genderlect styles.

To further read about relational dialectics start here.  For more on the genderlect series start here.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing