Men Cheating is Not Natural (3)

Married women of all nationalities have become conditioned through media programming by predominately white wealthy males to believe that if they do not look, talk or act a certain way, especially after having a child or children, they will not be appealing to their man and that it is their faults if their man starts a relationship outside of marriage.  One of the conditions of any program is that if you see or experience a thing long enough it becomes natural.  This is a  syndrome that many married couples face by simple falling into roles they are taught means being a married man or married woman.  Both genders once they get married begin to lose the basic instinct of friendship that bond them before they got married.  In some cases, couples never gain an open honest friendship and disgust the matters of what it means to be a husband and wife to each other as opposed to taking on fixed stereotypical roles of what media education trains humans to be as men and women.
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Men and Cheating (2)

When a man cheats, he is reacting to a combination of mental stimuli that includes images programmed in him by way of Hollywood.  He is taught from an early age to grow up and get the fancy car and money so he can have loads of woman.  What Hollywood never portrays is the family life in a constructive way, but a way of being dysfunctional. Media teaches both men and women that unity in a marriage is unnatural.


© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

Men Cheating is Not Natural (1)

First and foremost, the definition of cheating should be defined for reference to the contents of this article.

Taken from an online dictionary:

Cheating: Act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, esp. in a game or examination: "she cheats at cards". Deceive or trick."

The fact that women believe that it is natural for a man is reinforced by programming.  This programming includes a medium controlled by financially empowered men whose main gain in life is often based on being deceitful.  A man's natural instinct is not to be dishonest, deceitful and or destructive.  In fact, he is ordained to provide, protect and produce means that are beneficial to society, his family and mate. Analyzing the contrasts of two characteristics, cheating vs. being a man, it is not natural for a man to cheat.  Cheating is a learned behavior. It is a taught behavior and is a way of living that is not conducive with being a man.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

Love and Mental Health

Face it. Since men are always being trained to hide their feelings and or society doesn't take time to consider men can be sensitive and gain broken hearts just as much as a women, little care and advice is available for men with broken hearts. One of the signs of a broken hearted man is mental health conditions. Poor mental health is at a high among men of all nationalities. With unemployment and broken family ties rampant, men are suffering in silence when it comes to emotional pain that hardens, and or shatters comfort in, their hearts.
(Link to full article)  How to Mend a Man's Broken Heart


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How to Find Love after a Breakup- 5 tips

The best relationships are those that help a person grow emotionally. When a relationship ends, concentrate on the positive aspect of that in the relationship that was not favorable since it will help with making decisions of not repeating that which is not good for your person. Love can help you become a better appreciated communicator. Here are a few dating tips when searching for a new love. To find Love and Respect take in consideration the following 5 posts.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

How to Find Love after a Breakup (1)

DECIDE to inspire being loved. If you haven't had good preparation for grooming strong intimate relationships, project to the person of your interest that they need to accept who you are without thinking they can change you. Change in your person will come with compromise not demand. Say to yourself daily, "I deserve to be loved and respected because I am a loving and respecting being." Remember you are what you think and you will attract what you feel about yourself from the opposite sex.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

How to Find Love after a Breakup (2)

DETERMINE at least five things you should be loved for and write them down. If you have a fun sense of humor, write it down. If it's your manners, communication skills or attentive listening, write them down. Just make sure what you document are personality traits. You don't want to write down attributes; beautiful eyes, soft and supple skin, silky hair and being muscular for example. These are characteristics of lust and conceit, not love or capabilities.

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How to Find Love after a Breakup (3)

ACCEPT BEING LOVED. Start by reviewing your list and listening to yourself saying them out loud. Use a mirror and smile when you repeat what you have written about yourself so it can become a part of your conscious state and project to those you meet. You deserve to be loved for those qualities you respect about yourself, so respect yourself first to be treated respectfully.
© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

How to Find Love after a Breakup (4)

PEER HELP. Cconsider asking friends to write on a piece of paper the attributes in you they admire. Try asking them to make a small list of maybe five sentences of good feelings or things you have done for them that made them happy. Review their lists often to accept why you deserve to be loved.
© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

How to Find Love after a Breakup (5)

RELEASE FEAR. Continue to be fearless about your projection of self and you will find that you begin to attract people of like disposition. You are your own universe. When looking for a mate, what you create as desires will come to you with practicing the tips in this article religiously. For more advice log on to the following 3 complete articles:
PINK LENS EFFECT  
CAVEMAN RESPONSE  
ULTIMATE NATURAL APHRODISIAC FOR WOMEN

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

Enticing Men

The voice of a woman is engaging. Practice and learn to speech in a tone an octave lower. The female voice is generally pitchy when she gets excited. Using a lowered tone method of speaking helps to keep the pitch not only favorable, but helps keep the male psyche for being able to better absorb what is being relayed by a woman. Speak slower and take time to think before you speak. Access the circumstance and who you are talking to for the words you want or need to express. Be profound, precise and profanity free.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

What Does it Mean to be Active Aggressive Progressive?

Simply put, being active aggressive progressive is a personality trait that lends to using procrastination as a means to action orientated decision making that leads to envision opportunities that attract positive  solid business and personal relationships. It is the thinking process that ties ventures together for good purposes and experiences that are not wasteful.  One cannot be progressive if time is not planned actively and then aggressively put into action by being steadfast in moving forward or to the next level when a goal is met.  Goals are created by perception and to perceive a progressive state of mind, within silent moments, the mind must actively use all references and experiences in one's life as positive indicators.  Positive thinking ignites active aggressive progressive character in humans.  It is another key to success and happiness.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

The One

Men's dreams are based on putting plans in motion.  A man that takes time to plan is not one to aspire, but to be active aggressive progressive in their actions.  There's a mouth full.   It is the place a woman wants to meet a man in his life.  A man that plans and conquers is living out his natural instinct.  If he is not married, dating will suffice filling the void of the animal magnetism in his life, but he plans for a woman to be by his side even if he is not conscious that it is what he needs or wants.  It's the natural order of things for him to be mated with "The One".  There's a misconception of what is "the one."  Often humans think  the saying, "The One" is in reference to a mate as being the perfect partner.  Could or could not be true in the sense at least of being of the same ideals.  Instinctively, The One is just that; ONE mate.  It may not be one mate or the same mate for the rest of one's life, but the perfect mate is ONE at a time that is a confidant, best friend, lover and on your team of successful ventures in confidence and sincerity.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

Communication Adaptability

Since spirituality in many cases in the form of organized religion is a major condition in most people's life, researching and or analyzing a variety of religious values could help to recognize the lack of the ability in a person or group of people's ability to adapt or not adapt due to their spiritual upbringing and or focus.  Being familiar with different thinking patterns of religious groups could also help with learning how to adapt to different social situations and the ethics in differences.  The right to religious values is a personal choice.  It can become an issue, however, when those values clash with a  mate or group of people because of one's lack of clarity, or openness to accept or lack of ability to agree to disagree.

A remedy to this lack of communication is to be knowledgeable enough to see the similarities in belief systems.  Learning more in depth why you or someone maybe adamant about religious values is a way to help build understanding, acceptance and adaptation to the psychological needs of others.

Adaptability for making high incomes

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Learn to be Sexy by Gaining Knowledge

Back to school sales are here and will continue throughout August into Early September. One of the sexiest things a man or woman can do is learn and or teach something new to a mate. Adding excitement to a relationship can be found in new communication skills, ideas and or learned behavior. Take out time to learn a new trade, take up ballroom dancing, belly dancing, art, a music class or maybe a philosophy course geared to today's changing society to help grow romance in a relationship. A romantic evening can be started after a day long class at the planetarium learning about the star system and placement of heavenly orbs.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

  

Education of the Black Female Mind

Beyond the beats and rhymes, a daily voyeuristic view into the projection of what hip hop life is like can help aid in black women hearing negative chatter in their heads that makes for lack of self esteem.  Limiting the viewing  of hip hop videos that degrade women increases a young woman's chances of seeing her self as more than a sex object and makes for having more options to view positive images of being a woman and making career choices that are not just sexually orientated.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

You Could Never be to Smart

Stay away from men that do not have a conversation.  If a man only has knowledge on one or two subject matters, he will eventually find you to be a threat to his masculinity.  These personality types often become emotionally abusive to women they consider, "too smart." Take your time with getting to know a man.  The more you talk with him, the more you will learn how versatile, versed and or cultured he is or is not.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

How to Tell a Good Man

It is not a science being able to tell if you have a good man or not.  The best way to tell if a man is good is if he caters to your requirements to be a good woman to him.  Look closely at that last statement. In paraphrase:  a good man is a man that makes a woman want to go out of her way and be good to him.   If you are a woman who doesn't feel that way about someone you are dating, you feel the need to flirt, have relationships, cheat... with another man while claiming a man to be your man, than the one you are calling, "your man" or thinks he is "your man" is not a "good man", at least for you.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

What Does a Man Want?

A man doesn't want a woman who believes he is playing a game when he is not feeling and can't make a date or engagement.   He can become bitter about a relationship when he is mature enough to end a date because he can tell a woman is tired but she implies he is up to something because he does such as going to see someone when he leaves her for the evening. He doesn't want a mother, but believe it or not, many men enjoy being a nurturer by spoiling his woman with her desires.   Desires, unfortunately, doesn't mean mostly material things.  It doesn't mean he won't buy her products or services she craves.  Although a man may even help pay a woman's bills, he will in the long run look at a woman's spending habits as a bill.  If her desires is to move financially forward, he may find it more pleasing to help out with her projects.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

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What Does TomCat Divorce Mean to You?

Now that Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise have finalized their divorce, how does it effect you and the children of the world?  For one, the dissolving of the Cruise marriage is the continuing of relationships that media conglomerates can no longer cleverly use their name match of TomCat to sell news product. But on a more serious note, the mature decision to not drag out their divorce is a wise ploy that many relationships that have bore and or raise children can take a lesson.  Divorce does not have to be a long drawn out situation.  It can be more detrimental on everyone involved to simply put an end to it quickly and work out finances fairly.  If you are young and driven enough, money should not be the basis of dissolving a relationship that can in the long run be emotionally debilitating on more levels than a quick swift separation of all states of affairs between a couple.  If there is less stress between a couple during an unfortunate divorce between them and they have small children, it may be easier to continue communicating with any of their children as they grow.  In the divorce case of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, these are two major celebrities whose lives would be torn apart in various mediums that have no regard for their safety or personal lives.  The less the media has to discuss about the break of the their marriage, the less archived.  It is a wonderful gift that the couple gave each other and their child to come to a swift agreement, buy settling all finances and moving forward for the sake of the sanity of all involved.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

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Healing Remedy of Love

Love is a healing remedy. Making love is not a sexual experience but a sexual gain from love making. The rule of great love making is when the mind, spirit and unconscious is one and united between two people,  a sense of peace, relaxation and healing occurs when the two are in each other's presence. Healing of the mind is implemented when love is shared because it helps calm the nerves, mental state and conditions the body to relax.  There is mutual understanding between all spirits when love is the foundation of giving and sharing.  It is universal the healing remedy of love and can be seen in all relationships that are healthy.


© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing


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Play House

Remember when you were a little girl or little boy and you dressed up or imagined that you were someone else?  Little girls sometimes pretended to by their mommy going to work or taking care of the family, - (of course there were many other roles they pretended to be including scientist and astronauts).  Men pretended to be construction workers, chefs, engineers, lawyers, accountants and or CEO's of their on company or at the company one of their parents may have worked.

Both boys and girls sometimes pretended to be actors, producers, writers and educators.  Childhood is a time when one wants to be an adult.  There are moments of their play that they want to be taken serious about their goals and what they want to achieve in the adult world.  Adulthood, on the other hand, is when one wants to have moments as simple as being childlike to get away from all the serious decision making throughout the day.  This is especially true when it comes to relationships with lovers that are growing older.  One of the exciting experiences about new relationships is because they help the child within feel.  It is during the first year, and it is a real chemical experience that occurs during the first year of all relationships by the way, that makes for feeling a light, childlike, free state of being in relationships.

There are many moments of acting silly and eventful occasions that outsiders could even consider to be dumb, or childlike.  Who wants a relationship to be serious all the time.  Put a little light in your romance strategies.  Acting goes a long way when done in a fun and affectionate way.  Men can try pretending they are sick to coax their woman into a passionate love interlude.  Baby talk for woman and dressing up just for the sake of doing so can be a real turn on.  Women don't always have to dress up in role playing gear.  Not being home when he returns and then coming home overdressed in a sexy gown can do wonders for a sexy evening.   Try to set it up where he knows you're coming and he has to open the door for you to enter.   You don't have to be living together to pull this off either.   If you don't live together, could be more fun if it appears to be a simple run of the mill visit.

Ladies, you don't' always have to be seductive in a soft and or deepened voice either to attract a romantic evening.  Imagine talking like a little girl with your man and saying, "I'm bored.  I need someone to play with.",  in a childlike voice. :) Please though.  No child like clothes and or hairstyles with the act, okay.  That could be a little weird.  Have a good night!

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

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Reference Points

To gain a happy love life, think about how knowledge can be sexy.  It doesn't mean one has to have a college education, but being well versed in various subjects is great for conversation and building communication tactics with the opposite sex.  Having reference points from various angles about any subject, especially in historic moments or social issues can be great for getting to know someone.  The more a lover knows about anatomy, history, foods, places, life and communication can be very sensual.  Reference points can be one of the best aphrodisiacs to get a woman excited and a wonderful way for a man to show he is versatile, as well as, a great candidate for being a family man.

© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing

Improve Love Life with Heatwave Weight Loss

Fad diets. Quick weight loss diets. Dieting foods.  What about using heat waves for losing weight Love handles are one of the most difficult parts of the body to lose.  The smaller they are, the more difficult it is to see a difference, until now.  Face it. Love handles that are barely noticeable are annoying and often neglected for finding ways to exercise and lose love handles During a heatwave as much as 2 cups of water can be lost from the body.  This can be a key time to lose enough weight to get rid of love handles and extra thickness in the body such as weight loss in the arms and thighs.  Sweating during a heatwave can help with weight loss.  The suggestions in this article are not to be sort as a medical document, but only suggestions for taking advantage of a heatwave to loose 1 to 3 lbs and or help with losing love handles effectively and quickly.  The tips are meant to help improve love life, by helping the user of these tips feel better about their body.  Read the complete article at the following link that this author has personally used to loose inches on the waist effortlessly and quickly: http://expertscolumn.com/content/how-lose-weight-during-heat-wave

Money Making Tips for Lovers

You want the house, the car, the 2.5 children and you don't live in the 1950s but the recession ridden millennium years.  Of course there is real estate that many choose to double and triple money, but in today's economy and natural catastrophe rampage communities, it is not always the best route for making money.  Often, the best real estate is in large cities protected by big industry companies with high rises.  Problem is most of the real estate in those locations can cost in the millions.  Alternative money making opportunities that are online and residual making is still one of the best ways to make money currently with little investment.  The right niche can make tens of thousands of dollars to help with investments in business ideas that couples dream of making a reality for financial security now and in retirement years.  The money making secrets of multimillionaire investors often start with online blogging, sales, posting, article writing and one shot wonders that are marketable to a select audience.  Business with automatic responders have been high powered tools to making money for a few decades.  They have evolved to include videos, avatars, animation and even simple voiceovers to a product line or service.  Lovers should serious consider where both their talents lie and how to make money off of their talents together even if they are working at a career and or have an established career.  Careers do not guarantee stability, but careers that are operated by the self, often lead to successful ventures that last a lifetime, unlike working for a corporation that may merge and or fold.  If you already have a mortgage, before venturing out into a business idea that will include a monthly bill, pay it down.  Never  have bills for a business idea compete with home mortgages and obviously a need to feed yourself and family.  Start early enough in launching an online business idea before the need of desperation sets in to make money or extra money takes over a sense of reason.  Not doing so can defeat the purpose of being creative and focused on learning strategies that work for marketing online businesses and making a monthly income that is worth time invested.  Keep in mind that one of the great opportunities for launching online and residual income businesses is that not having great credit will not stop a young couple from getting started with making money and opening up a first business.  Even more, since there is often a need to do social networking with online businesses, working online is an easy way to get an education that can lead to expansion of a business started and or more new business ideas.


© 2012 Sharon L. West- 2008-2012 MightyDreamer Publishing


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Play Land

The inner child activates in adulthood through sense of smell, touch, taste and emotion. It is the love of activities during childhood that fall into those categories humans attached the feeling of love, that does not dissipate as an adult, but transforms to adult interpretation of new experiences that subconsciously reminds the heart, spirit and other senses of childhood memories.  Life is like a play land for humans that never ceases for the love of life to feel alive and satisfying. This is key to understanding how relationships are built between a man and woman and or lovers of the same sex. To help bring about intimacy with a mate, actions and emotions need to land in the area of childhood play. When building intimacy, do not neglect learning about the childhood of the one you love and are interested in getting to know. Learn the places, people and things they experienced to help cater to those lost moments but great memories by making them into new experiences by using the child within. Two people in love will find catering to the child within each other also helps build a great sex life.
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