If he says he is divorced, ask to see the divorce papers. If he says he lives in Long Island or Maryland and you live in NYC or Washington, DC, before you meet, make it clear that you expect to see his driver license. Asking for a birth certificate of someone you are dating for a couple of months is not unreasonable either. Mostly, if he claims to own a house or live alone and you have been communicating weekly or worse yet, daily, and you have never seen where he lives, consider that he maybe living with roommates and doesn't have anywhere near what he claims, but most likely, has only interest of trying to figure out how he can get you into a sexual compromise. A great clue that a man is not serious about being with a woman long-term is if he repeatedly talks about you and him going away or the second famous slick rick-ness, if you live far from each other, exclaiming how making a day at a hotel, one day, as a romantic moment on a whim he plans to surprise you with one day.
There are many ways to check on a man's history both romantically and socially. Date online wisely. Do not compromise your values just because men online have access to woman globally. Keep that in mind also that just because you are dating him in your city, that it doesn't mean he doesn't have eyes for someone in another site. Monitor his online habits and remember, men who lie online are the same type that lie offline. To find romance, use your same value system and intellect as you would dating someone you meet initially, in person.
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