Thursday, June 20, 2013

Do Men Lie Online? (beg of true story)

As for people who lie online, the most famous for men is their age and for women their size.  This is at least what many men and women that I have spoken to complain about. I have experienced it too, when I indulged briefly searching for romance through online dating consistently, for several months.  For example, I was interested in the profile of a mature man of fifty-one years of age, who when I met him, although youthful, it was obvious to me, he was closer to being in his late fifties.  I continued to talk to him and go on casual dates since it appeared, we had many of the same goals and desire about seeking a serious relationship, he appeared to have the type of goals I could respect and he appeared to be sincerely interested and it appeared we could build businesses together.

Fortunately for me,  during the six months of allowing him in my circle, I did not get intimate with him and found out that he was actually sixty-three years old.  That's no where near the age group I am interesting in dating to find a lifelong mate and certainly, in a situation where a man can lie to that extent about his age to try and date a younger woman, flags of distrust lay over a woman's head.  I would like to think a woman would at least think, a man like that is probably distrustful in more ways.  Turns out, I was right, he was a "slick ricky."

I would suggest, to women especially, when meeting someone online, do not be intimated to get proof of who a person says they are or what they do. If a man has a lot of talk, but doesn't find ways to show you proof of what he's about and says he does, look at it as a flag that he is either not sincere or lying.  If he speaks about having plans for you and then never comes through with talking about what those plans are showing direct moves plans being put in place, he is probably passing and wasting your time.

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